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Saturday, November 9, 2013
Keep It Simple;
Sometimes in life, people don't always keep things simple, in this blog of mine it'll be some real truths to my story, and some fake situations to my story.
Unfortunately, call it fate or not fate, there is a time line we all must follow in our lives however, we don't always make the right choices or the best decisions is made. But we must always live with those choices in the future, weather they are a good relationship or a bad relationship. In the heat of the moment we make rational decisions that we eventually regret later.
For example, when a person leaves state with 2 small children, and is very excited to meet another person, whom they think the world of at the time. This mutual friend said, it was a great idea to go traveling on a short vacation, that yes you needed to take a break.
But god only knows, that short vacation ended up being 25 years down the road with 3 more children, being born. After of coarse 3 proposals, and a trip to the court house, saying the I doe's. It all happened way to fast, a person didn't have time to think things over, contemplating the "What ifs?"
Who knew it was going to be that long, away from their family members who at that time was really close too? And who knew, it would mean a life time of commitment staying with someone, you barely knew after 3 months in a heavy relationship. Because when a person is seeing someone else, or not? Everyone knows how they put on their best face on, to make a big impression for them to fall in love with them. Not realizing their own mistakes in the long run, and who lives it affects in the long run. Mainly a couple of children was also involved unfortunately it was along time of regrets. Due to the wrong choices of the courts.
This adult couple had no idea what the future held for them, of a life time of commitments.
A person can either fall deeply in love or not be in love at all, and just play the games of it, making that mate think they are really in love. This is an act of deceptive moments, not only to their partner, but to themselves, and an act of lack of self control.
So for the sack of facing their responsibilities, they must carry through everything, for many reasons, but mostly for the children s sake. Most people have no idea what they are up against. Until all the 'I do's' is said, and over with. In today's world, its way too easy to get a divorce. And its way too easy, for the children, to make the same miss takes as their parents do. I am no expert in how relationships should take place by any means.
This leaves no room for cheating, on their partners, either nor does it mean to take your anger out on the other one, nor does it mean to be emotionally, or physically abusive to the other partner. But alot of times yes this does happen out of regrets, and out of lack of self control. Until next time, I will blog some more of my personal ideas.
Sometimes in life, people don't always keep things simple, in this blog of mine it'll be some real truths to my story, and some fake situations to my story.
Unfortunately, call it fate or not fate, there is a time line we all must follow in our lives however, we don't always make the right choices or the best decisions is made. But we must always live with those choices in the future, weather they are a good relationship or a bad relationship. In the heat of the moment we make rational decisions that we eventually regret later.
For example, when a person leaves state with 2 small children, and is very excited to meet another person, whom they think the world of at the time. This mutual friend said, it was a great idea to go traveling on a short vacation, that yes you needed to take a break.
But god only knows, that short vacation ended up being 25 years down the road with 3 more children, being born. After of coarse 3 proposals, and a trip to the court house, saying the I doe's. It all happened way to fast, a person didn't have time to think things over, contemplating the "What ifs?"
Who knew it was going to be that long, away from their family members who at that time was really close too? And who knew, it would mean a life time of commitment staying with someone, you barely knew after 3 months in a heavy relationship. Because when a person is seeing someone else, or not? Everyone knows how they put on their best face on, to make a big impression for them to fall in love with them. Not realizing their own mistakes in the long run, and who lives it affects in the long run. Mainly a couple of children was also involved unfortunately it was along time of regrets. Due to the wrong choices of the courts.
This adult couple had no idea what the future held for them, of a life time of commitments.
A person can either fall deeply in love or not be in love at all, and just play the games of it, making that mate think they are really in love. This is an act of deceptive moments, not only to their partner, but to themselves, and an act of lack of self control.
So for the sack of facing their responsibilities, they must carry through everything, for many reasons, but mostly for the children s sake. Most people have no idea what they are up against. Until all the 'I do's' is said, and over with. In today's world, its way too easy to get a divorce. And its way too easy, for the children, to make the same miss takes as their parents do. I am no expert in how relationships should take place by any means.
This leaves no room for cheating, on their partners, either nor does it mean to take your anger out on the other one, nor does it mean to be emotionally, or physically abusive to the other partner. But alot of times yes this does happen out of regrets, and out of lack of self control. Until next time, I will blog some more of my personal ideas.
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